As the calendar turns to a new year, it often brings a mix of introspection and anticipation. For Kelly Bensimon, a former reality TV star turned powerhouse real estate broker, this sentiment is especially poignant. Following a highly publicized breakup with businessman Scott Litner, just days before their planned 2024 wedding, Bensimon steps into the year with renewed focus and optimism.
Reflecting on a Transformative Year
“Last year was tough in the relationship department with a very public breakup, but sharing my experiences with my listeners and co-hosts has been more therapeutic than therapy,” she revealed in a recent interview with “South O’ the Highway,” referencing her podcast, I Do, Part 2, on iHeart Radio.
Despite the challenges, the 56-year-old author of In the Spirit of the Hamptons has embraced the places and experiences that ground her, particularly her beloved Hamptons, which she calls her “second home.”
Hamptons: A Place of Solace and Energy
For Bensimon, the Hamptons is where she finds her peace. “Whether riding horses, relaxing on the beach with my daughters, or enjoying quiet dinners with friends. The lifestyle is incredible,” she shared.
Her connection to the Hamptons is not only personal but also professional. As a leading real estate broker, she regularly visits the area for work and takes every opportunity to enjoy her favorite local spots.
Bensimon’s go-to dining destinations reflect her love for good food and lively atmospheres. “Coche Comedor in Amagansett for some delicious Mexican food, Stephen’s Talkhouse for cold beers and live music, Lulu Kitchen & Bar in Sag Harbor for the best lobster salad, and Le Bilboquet for a glass of white burgundy and some Cajun poulet,” she listed.
She also appreciates the region’s fresh produce, often stopping by Amber Waves and Balsam Farms to stock up on farm-fresh goods.
A Celebration of Art and Fashion
Beyond its culinary delights, Bensimon is drawn to the Hamptons’ vibrant art scene. “I love visiting the Pollock-Krasner House in Springs and stopping in to see my great friend Nick Weber at his studio, just down the road. My favorite gallery is Eric Firestone in East Hampton; he always has the most interesting finds,” she said.
Her appreciation for beauty extends to fashion. Bensimon’s curated shopping list includes boutiques like Urban Zen, Dôen, Ralph Lauren, Nili Lotan, and LoveShackFancy, where she finds unique pieces that reflect her personal style.
Balancing Indulgence with Fitness
Amid indulgent outings, Bensimon prioritizes her fitness routine, which she credits for keeping her grounded and energized. “Working out with Walter Savage at the Post House keeps me in great shape,” she shared.
This balance between savoring life’s pleasures and maintaining discipline shows Bensimon’s approach to well-being, a philosophy that resonates with her audience and clients alike.
Thriving in Real Estate
As she looks ahead, Bensimon remains laser-focused on her thriving real estate career. Already licensed in California, Florida, and New York, she revealed her next goal: “Texas is next on the list!”
The Hamptons market, where she has built a significant presence, continues to thrive. “Recently, there has been an influx of well-crafted homes that enhance the summer vacation experience for clients. Hamptons property values have risen by 7%, and the average home price is projected to exceed $2 million,” she noted.
Bensimon also shared seasoned advice for potential buyers. “When purchasing a home, it is crucial to identify your needs and preferences. By understanding your priorities, the selection process becomes more manageable. Subsequently, comparative analysis becomes essential in determining the value of your property,” she said.
Reflecting on her own experience, she added, “A valuable piece of advice I received from my mother was to purchase the most affordable house on the most expensive street you can afford. This principle has guided my homeownership journey.”
